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So, everything was good for almost two years. It all soured this week. The buyer had 4 years to get permanent financing -- then a balloon payment was due. Anyway, I helped him find a lender, got him a sub 3% rate, and he had a closing scheduled for next Monday. Everything was going to be great -- I would be paid off, he would have good financing.
THEN... he started playing around with online mortgage calculators (and he doesn't understand how interest in calculated). I had provided a payoff to his bank based on the amortization schedule we agreed on at closing. BUT... from the very first he had requested to send me a check for two months payment every other month. He said it was better for him that way because he liked to stay ahead. Now he thinks he should owe $12,000 less because he "paid early." The REALITY is that by paying bimonthly he should actually owe me $320 more than the payoff (I verified this with a professional accountant). He was paying TWICE as much, but HALF as frequently, and this actually causes a little more interest to accrue. This is one reason why financial advisors recommend making more frequent payments.
Anyway... last week he started emailing and texting me nonstop throughout the day until I finally told him that all future communication must be by mail -- no e-mails, texts, or phone calls. I told him that I considered his behavior to be harassment, and I urged him to consult with an accountant so that he could understand that the math is correct.
Heard today from the bank that he is not going through with the refi. What a maroon. He still owes me every month at 5% and he could have been under 3%. Also, he MUST pay off the entire balance in just over two years. He is 76 years old now.
So here I sit wondering if I will be getting a payment for February, or if I will be looking at sending certified letters of default and threatening foreclosure.
THEN... he started playing around with online mortgage calculators (and he doesn't understand how interest in calculated). I had provided a payoff to his bank based on the amortization schedule we agreed on at closing. BUT... from the very first he had requested to send me a check for two months payment every other month. He said it was better for him that way because he liked to stay ahead. Now he thinks he should owe $12,000 less because he "paid early." The REALITY is that by paying bimonthly he should actually owe me $320 more than the payoff (I verified this with a professional accountant). He was paying TWICE as much, but HALF as frequently, and this actually causes a little more interest to accrue. This is one reason why financial advisors recommend making more frequent payments.
Anyway... last week he started emailing and texting me nonstop throughout the day until I finally told him that all future communication must be by mail -- no e-mails, texts, or phone calls. I told him that I considered his behavior to be harassment, and I urged him to consult with an accountant so that he could understand that the math is correct.
Heard today from the bank that he is not going through with the refi. What a maroon. He still owes me every month at 5% and he could have been under 3%. Also, he MUST pay off the entire balance in just over two years. He is 76 years old now.
So here I sit wondering if I will be getting a payment for February, or if I will be looking at sending certified letters of default and threatening foreclosure.